My advice to you is to live the life of a Brahmacharin, i.e. giving up all sexual enjoyments for a certain time live in the house of your father; this is the "Kutichaka" stage. Try to bring your wife to consent to your great sacrifice for the good of the world. And if you have burning faith and all-conquering love and almighty purity, I not doubt that you will shortly succeed.
- Swami Vivekananda
30th November, 1894.U.S.A.,The Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda/Volume 6/Epistles - Second Series/LI Dear and Beloved